November 7, 2012
An excerpt from Christine Benvenuto’s forthcoming memoir on the experience of surviving a genderist spouse was published in TheGuardian this week. “Sex Changes: A Memoir Of Marriage, Gender And Moving On” will be published November 13 by St Martin’s Press. Recommended by “My Husband Betty” blogger Helen Boyd.
Her middle-aged autogynephillic husband of twenty years and father to three children is consumed with his male-privileged gender fantasies of what it means to be female and Christie records the results. Some quotes:
“Yet Tom was interested in my relationships with other women. Too interested. Whenever I began a friendship, he would edge suffocatingly close. One time he called a new friend in secret to ask for babysitter recommendations so he could take me out for my birthday. After that, he often found some pretext – it always felt like a pretext – of doing something nice, and got his hands on a friend’s phone number, calling for advice or information and asking her for secrecy. It felt creepy every time.”
“From his cheerleaders I learned that in the new political correctness, female solidarity is out. A man in a dress is in. Among women who consider themselves feminists, a man who declares himself a transsexual trumps another woman any day. One of Tom’s supporters would eventually sum up this perspective most explicitly: “He’s a transsexual. Anything he does is what he needs to do.”
These career women told Tom, and some would later tell me, that my wifely role was to support my man and to get my children on board with the project. My responsibility was to Tom. Tom’s responsibility was to Tom. In the Valley of the Politically Correct, being a transsexual means never having to say you’re sorry.”
“It is inescapable: for me there is something slightly creepy and more than slightly sad about a man in women’s clothes. Male legs in sheer stockings. The sight of Tom in an exact replica of a skirt that was once my favourite. It is creepy for one woman to copycat another, the stuff of thrillers. Creepier for a man to do the same. Creepier still if that man is your husband.
Looking back, I can say Tom was a wonderful husband, father, friend. Or I can say Tom was a fabrication. A fake, who didn’t want to be with me, he wanted to be me.”
Read more here:
ETA: This is “Tom”: http://www.metroweekly.com/arts_entertainment/events/?ak=7811
October 12, 2012
Panicked by rumors that Adrian Chen of Gawker is about to run an article identifying him, notorious Reddit pedophile Violentacrez (whose activities are documented HERE ) has deleted his Reddit account and gone into hiding.
Things started getting a bit uncomfortable for Violentacrez when a group of enterprising women decided it was time to organize and take action against the Reddit site “Creepshots”, which is where men post compromising photos of women taken without their knowledge or consent as a sort of sadistic photographic sexualized group internet assault. Like Violentacrez’s r/Jailbait, which had an policy banning any user which posted a legal photo or a photo of any female over eighteen, Creepshots policy was that all photos must be taken unwillingly, without the consent and participation of the women being targeted.
Women said “enough is enough” and decided to fight back, and began documenting the identities of the participating men and reporting them to law enforcement. One man – a teacher who posted stalkery sexualized photos of his female students- was investigated and fired. A site called “Predditors” http://predditors.tumblr.com/ was started to shed light on the men involved: a site where women can post photos and public information identifying these perpetrators.
Yesterday The Creepshots site was taken down after a woman apparently tracked down the site moderator “CreeperComforts” and threatened to expose him http://i.imgur.com/AL52y.png . A replacement site “CreepSquad” has already been started. Gawker writer Adrian Chen, who has covered pedophile Violentacrez ‘s activities before, apparently followed these events closely and wisely decided it might be a good time to do a follow up story on Reddit’s chief child pornographer. He apparently contacted several sources at Reddit which caused Violentacrez, who must see the way the wind is blowing, to delete his account and flee after years of sexually exploiting underage children. Unsubstantiated rumor is that Chen is planning to run a gawker piece which discusses Violentacrez ‘s real-life identity.
Chen isn’t yet talking. But in the ensuing shitstorm (of Reddit men angered at their predatory porn being under attack and raging at their child porn and creep porn being taken away) several events have occurred. In the last 24 hours:
Reddit moderators have joined together to ban all Gawker links from Reddit in protest.
Gawker’s Adrian Chen responded by vowing to ban all Reddit links, and all use of Gawker materials including links, from Reddit.
The men have successfully had the Predditors site removed from Tumblr.
Tumblr has REINSTATED the Predditors site.
Sites like GenderTrender who have previously covered the malefeasance of pedophile Violentacrez are being inundated by nasty creeps “typing with one hand”.
In celebration of Violentacrez’ s removal from Reddit, and in response to the creepy porn-sick pedophile skum that is sending GenderTrender nasty-ass comments based on my previous campaign against Violentacrez, I present a GenderTrender exclusive: The only known public photos of child pornographer Violentacrez. These were taken at a Dallas Reddit Meetup. Enjoy Boys!
Katie J. M. Baker at Jezebel http://jezebel.com/creepshots/
Rebecca Greenfield at The Atlantic Wire http://www.theatlanticwire.com/technology/2012/10/redditors-stand-gawker-protect-child-pornography/57850/
are all providing excellent reportage of the emergent events.
September 13, 2012
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February 1, 2012
Someone dropped me a line about a show they saw on the National Geographic Channel this week called “Taboo: Secret Lives”. I’ve never seen the show, but apparently they featured a woman who “had a secret”, and the secret was that she was a fake paraplegic. That’s right! The woman went around in a wheelchair pretending to have a spinal injury- fooling everyone. The woman who contacted me just couldn’t believe that a female would do such a thing. She was certain that the woman (although they never mentioned it on the show) must be a male transgender. And she was right. Read the rest of this entry »
January 2, 2012
December 15, 2011
This is a follow up to this post about a 14 year old boy on puberty suppressing medications named Nicole who was featured in a Boston Globe article a few days ago.
One of the saddest aspects of the whole trans kids phenomena is the way the kids are fetishized by transgenders and pedophiles alike. Not that the two categories are always separate. From the men who sexually fetishize the pubescent-boy look of young F2Ts to the men who sexualize young boys like Nicole in a predatory, pedophilic way. As we can see by the screen caps below, in the few days since the publication of the Boston Globe article, Nicole is already being targeted by pedophiles on reddit.
Nicole isn’t alone. Reddit is a cesspool of sexualized child exploitation, mostly- but not always- of minor females.
In Nicole’s case, the male transgender that originated the below posts is a well-known moderator at reddit that calls himself “violentacrez”. He claims he is a 50 year old IT professional, beta tester and self described “hacker” living in the Dallas area who posts from his work computer and once “had sex” with his 19 year old stepdaughter, and gave his son a box of pornographic magazines when he was six years old (which the son confirms). He describes his Gender Identity” as:
“Cisgendered male, wish I was a girl, attracted to girls, but a bottom who likes cock.” He elaborates: “I have grown awfully fond of my penis, and my prostate brings me multiple orgasms, but I also want to be smooth and pretty and have breasts and a vagina and bear children.” [sic]
The activities of Violentacrez, who has ties to graphic artist Felix LaFlamme, was featured in a September Anderson Cooper CNN segment on child predators after being tracked by Gawker blogger Adrian Chen for months.
Violentacrez started a section on reddit called “Jailbait” where he uploaded photos of female children that he collected from teenage social networking sites- photos where the girls were wearing bathing suits or playing dress-up (or just posing with Mickey Mouse at Disney world) in ways that he and other pedophiles find erotic. He then captioned them with sexualized commentary. The site header read ““Keep a teen off the streets — put her in your van!”
Violentacrez also started a reddit site called /r/picsofdeadchildren where necrophilic pedophiles can view and upload – what else? Pictures of dead children, as well as a site called “LittleGirlsDancingLikeWhores”. In October of this year his “Jailbait” site was shut down for posting photos of a 14 year old performing oral sex on a male.
The other sites remain, and the jailbait site has since been replaced by the following:
Looking for jailbait? Try one of these fine reddits:
0.Pro Teen Models
0.The New Jailbait
0.Gay Teen Pics
0.Male Jailbait Archives ** Private, by invitation only**
You can verify it for yourself by clicking any of the above links [Changed my mind-links removed. Go find them yourself]. – I’m not going to re-post the pictures of the kids stolen from Facebook pages and creepily posted on these pedo sites, or the child pornography.
The “Trapbait” category, moderated by Violentacrez, features trans (“trap”) underage (“jailbait”) children, and featured 14 year old Nicole within days of the Boston Globe article under the title “Meet Nicole Maines”.
A thread was also started on “/r/ T-Girls” about Nicole titled “The sister is coming along nicely”:
It’s time to get these pedophile sites removed from Reddit, which is owned by Advance Publications. According to their website, Advance publications “is a privately held communications company that, directly or through subsidiaries, owns Conde Nast Publications (Vogue, Architectural Digest, Vanity Fair, The New Yorker, etc.) Parade Publications, Fairchild Publications, American City Business Journals, the Golf Digest Companies, and newspapers in more than twenty-five American cities; Advance Publications’ subsidiaries also have extensive interests in cable television, as well as in Internet sites which are related to its print publications.
The company is privately owned by Samuel Newhouse Jr. and his brother, Donald. Samuel is the chairman and CEO and is the 47th most wealthy human being in the United States.
Here is a partial list of Advance Publications properties:
I don’t think Advance publications will be responsive to public outcry or complaints. First of all, they don’t even have a headquarters. Instead, I suggest that concerned readers contact their state representative and say (in your own words):
“I am contacting you because I am deeply concerned by the exploitation of children and child pornography on the internet site Reddit.
This site posts stolen pictures of underage children from social networking sites for pedophiles to view. This online sexualized harassment and bullying of children should be condemned, and prosecuted.
Even though Anderson Cooper exposed what these Reddit sites are doing, most of them are still up and running. I do not think Reddit should be allowed to post pictures of minor children stolen from social networking sites for the purpose of sexually exploiting minor chidren. It is disgusting and outrageous that these people can get away with this.
I would like you to look into the matter and contact Advance Publications, who own Reddit and demand that they remove these awful sites. I also think law enforcement should be involved and these guys should be arrested.”
Here is a link to your Representative:
Let’s shut down these child exploitation Reddit pedophile sites once and for all.
*Dallas peeps- feel free to drop me some data on “violentacrez”. Your anonymous comment will not be published.
December 13, 2011
One of the saddest reports yet on the sterilization of a gay child to “cure” him of his sex-role nonconformity and homosexuality. He is also framed as a deformed child with a medical birth defect for his “unacceptable” tastes in toys, activities and clothing.
The whole Boston Globe article, titled “Led by the child who simply knew” is an exercise in the triumph of conservative homophobic sex-role norms, and the promotion of heteronormativity through reparative experimental medical and surgical “therapies”.
December 2, 2011
Follow up to this post: