A Black Butch Speaks: Addressing Female Oppression

January 19, 2012

by Pippa Fleming

I’ve been holding silence for quite some time but now it’s time for me to speak.

When a Black child presents with signs of internalized racism, we want to protect them. We want them to know they are perfect as they are and loved for exactly who they are. If we are conscience Black folks, we try to infuse our young people with the knowledge, skills, wisdom and support necessary, so they may survive and thrive in this racist society.

If little Lakesha comes home with “mommy I hate being Black and I want to be white” we are shocked, dismayed and sadden by her self loathing and rush to find the source of her oppression. Is it school, the media, her peers, society or all of the above?

So why when little butch Lakesha comes home with “I hate my body and I want to be a boy” is she encouraged to take on male identity or the subject matter is avoided all together and she is left to flounder in a sea of gender conforming beliefs that lead to dysphoria and a life lived in the shadows?

From the moment a female child presents as butch she is loathed, feared and rendered invisible by her peers and elders alike. Why are we not outraged by butch oppression and willing to explore gender oppression like we look at race or class oppression? Why is it seen as status quo for young butch girls to hate their bodies the goddess blessed them with? Why are we ushering our baby butches towards male identity rather than exploring the causes of this type of self hatred?

We are quick to say that a Black person is suffering internally if they want to bleach their skin white or have plastic surgery to look more european… but if a child wants to cut their breasts off and get rid of their vagina this is acceptable! In turn, if I question this as a butch female, I am seen as transphobic.

I am a gender non conforming female butch, who uses the men’s bathroom, is perceived as a man everyday I walk out my door and rendered invisible by society. Instead of expanding the boundaries of female identity to include all of it’s nuances, we have fallen desperate prey to that 1% we claim to despise!

To be Black, female and butch is to be a warrior, let us pray that more of us have the courage to love ourselves wholly and be outspoken mentors to young butches struggling not to conform to the impossible.

And ain’t I a woman!

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[Writer, director, choreographer, DJ and vocalist Pippa Fleming originally posted this powerful essay on her Facebook, and I am absolutely thrilled that she has agreed for me to re-post it here on GenderTrender. Thanks Pippa. -GM]

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9 Responses to “A Black Butch Speaks: Addressing Female Oppression”

  1. GallusMag Says:

    Thanks Bev Jo for forwarding Pippa’s “A Black Butch Speaks” text to me and for making this post possible.
    xoxox

  2. Mary Sunshine Says:

    I’m so much happier to be on this planet now that I know that this Dyke is here with us.🙂 Thanks, Gallus; thanks, Bev; and thanks Pippa.

  3. jane hathaway Says:

    Pippa, this is to the point and clear / accessible. I have also shared it widely. Please let us know if you start blogging!

  4. Bev Jo Says:

    Thank you, Gallus!!! xoxo

    I was so pleased Pippa had sent her article to me and then said it was fine to pass it on — and what better place than here! I want EVERYONE to see her writing and her courage. And I love that you found the video of her. What a handsome Butch! And yes, what a WOMAN WARRIOR! This is why I say that Black Lesbians are among the most radical I’m seeing in terms of female-identified and Lesbian-identified politics.

    And for those who are still puzzled about what a Butch is, here she is, in all of her glory — all female. Thank you, Pippa!

  5. FeistyAmazon Says:

    THANK YOU PIPPA! I love your handsome presence whenever I see you about Oaktown, and so glad you spoke up. To me, ALL Female Centered Butches who retain their femaleness are Warriors, and indeed I am too! And we fight for the female as well, within and without, as we expand boundaries…but some want us to shrink ourselves instead! Great analogy! And the fierciest of Female Warriors were the Gorgons who were believed to be Black Amazons….one of our ancient Amazon tribes and ancestors…..
    -In Butch DykeAmazon Sisterhood,
    -FeistyAmazon

  6. jose Says:

    Seriously. People need to hear a million voices like hers. I wonder if it’s okay to translate this into Spanish?

  7. FeistyAmazon Says:

    Reblogged this on FeistyAmazon and commented:
    Powerful message for ALL Butch Dykes/Lesbians!!


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