Trans activist outs himself as a pedophile rapist

May 12, 2015

Privilege Denying Tranny

11159949_1644684155766662_8566129408536761435_n

This was written by someone who goes by the name Cecelia Valentin, a narcissistic sociopath pedophile trans woman who wants everyone to pity him because he’s attracted to young children and is “dating” a 15. He’s fucking disgusting.

cecelia Valentine

Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse
22 hrs ·
This is Admin Cecelia, you can find my actual profile at facebook.com/transgendurr, I founded this page, I make most of the posts. If you are going to continue to read please understand this long status is going to contain some really really heavy shit, if you’re not okay with content involving child rape, pedophilia or CSA it’s best if you continue on, I’ve poured my heart into this post so maybe you’ll want to give it a chance any ways. Please understand that coming out about this in this way has been the most painful thing I have ever had to do, I…

View original post 2,860 more words

146 Responses to “Trans activist outs himself as a pedophile rapist”

  1. australopithecene Says:

    What a disgusting piece of garbage. Don’t let him in women’s spaces!


    • copy of comment to above blog:
      “The disgusting narcissistic sociopath is you. Why would you disable comments unless you were a troll or crackpot? Your blog shall be reported for libel.

      When sodomy (oral or anal sex) laws were still in effect until the 60s and 70s, queers were preferentially imprisoned and harassed for their normal sex lives, and the APA and DSM classified same-sex attraction as a mental disorder, the prerequisite for one whether the act were socially or legally disruptive. After the laws were repealed the disorder was removed from the DSM. Whether something is illegal or disgusting to a reality-denialist prude is no grounds to threaten a third party.”

      • Teal Deer Says:

        Lesbian and gay people don’t require straight people to participate in their sex lives. Trans people, however, do demand the participation of everyone around them, willing or not.

      • kesher Says:

        You’re going to report a website for libel? To whom, pray tell?

  2. emmajune Says:

    God how fucking awful. Does anybody know who this person is? Is there more info so we can make a police report?

    • GallusMag Says:

      The trans community in Toronto certainly knows who he is.

    • Andi Says:

      “he”? Come on, GallusMag, don’t “misgender” him, you will hurt his feelings!!!! He feels female and therefore he is a she!!! LOL

      I felt feline this morning and I went off at anybody who did no pet me and gave me catnip! I am a cat, you know, I feel that way!!! Don’t be a felinephobic person, don’t call me a woman, call me fluffy and give me some fancy feast!!!


      • If you can get the brainscans to show you think like a cat, write Congress.

      • kesher Says:

        Please let us know when you get the brain scans that prove you think like a woman.

      • Derrick Jensen Says:

        Frankly, I’d be glad if Autymn can show us brainscans showing he can think.

      • Biscuit Says:

        Biological sex is determined by the reproductive system, not the nervous system.

        Really, think about how animal breeders generally work. If a person wants to breed dogs, or horses, or whatever, does he brain scan the animals to determine who to pair up, or is it based on their reproductive anatomy?

  3. soporificat Says:

    Well, it is pretty obvious to me that the “xir” and “xe” that this guy is “dating” is female. Hmmm, an older man wanting to own/consume a young girl, how edgy, modern, and different from all of history–lolol!! Whenever you strip off the gender-glitter double-talk it’s always the same old story.

    What’s truly amazing is how this guy has managed to rehabilitate, in his own mind, the word pedophilia.

  4. Pf Says:

    And *of course* not only does this gross dude groom a child into believing he’s the only person in the world who cares about or respects her (and is meant to be with her forever *gag*) but he’s got to talk on social media about how he’s already raped her. But it’s all his trauma response so don’t you dare judge.

    Oh, and he can’t possibly go to prison, because he’d be *killed* for being trans. (Actually, given the number of trans in prison stories, I doubt it, but he’d be bottom of the prison hierarchy for being a pedo.)

    • neme Says:

      Male trans have high status in prison. Inmates who prefer to consider themselves straight can be situationally homosexual with a transwoman, while telling themselves this isn’t really gay.

      You’re right about the paedos however. That’s the real reason he will wind up in protective custody.


  5. “Before you reel in disgust, before you slew insults at me and equate me with a rapist, before you get out of your armchair to stand on your moral high horse and judge me I want you to give me a chance to explain something to you”

    Yes…this is the same language trannies use to convince otherwise reasonable people to wholeheartedly accept that “men can become women.” Their goal is to GROOM us to accept their sexual perversion.

    His justification for society to accept “pedo” as a s exual (YUCK) orientation is the exact same justification trannies use to get us to accept them as women. It’s all about feelings, attractions beyond control, living on the fringe as an outcast, and being reviled.

    These are poisoned minds trying to poison others to keep them company and “in business.”

    Theyre using the success of the gay movement to validate them just as NAMBLA tried to do in the 70s and 80s. In fact, per this freak, the trans community is just NAMBLA 2.0. Kind of like how Rev. Sharpton says that the old Jim Crow of the 50s is the new James Crow, Esq. of today.

    “treatments for “pedophiles with penises is estrogen, which is fucking sexist honestly, testosterone = rapist? fuck”

    That’s the same argument trannies are using to get into the women’s bathroom!!

    Not only is it a horrible reason for a “man to become a woman,” it’s a shitty “justification” to let trannies in women’s spaces.

    It’s not a conspiracy — it’s an alliance. We need to depict the pedo/tranny alliance via Venn Diagram. They disregard the FACT that men commit 90% of all homicides, and that we do not have nearly as many women committing sexual assault and rape. Smart people understand that vulnerable children are more likely to be safer in the care of a woman than of a man. Because, clearly, some men see NOTHING wrong with (YUCK) being a pedo. In fact, this monster wants it reclassified as an orientation!! No woman would think that up…this dude is NOT a woman.

    “I currently still see no solace in feminism for my kind, I still see no support, solidarity, understanding, empathy, humanity or acknowledgement for pedophiles in feminism.”

    Well, yeah…feminists don’t support serial killers, either.

    To quote President Obama, “proceed, governor.” Keep sharing your crazy thoughts, pedo tranny. Let’s see how much acceptance you gain from mainstream society (and the criminal justice system) when you speak freely about your worldview and intentions.

    So much is falling into place…no wonder they hate RadFems: we cock block them.

    No wonder they want us to “die in a grease fire.” They’re projecting their concealed self-hatred onto “mommy.”

    They really are the Norman Bates crowd…or Silence of the Lambs.

    • No name Says:

      Another guy that claims to be an out pedo, [but now ids as lesbian to kids] is Sara Butts [aka sarah nyberg on twitter]. I first ran across this guy when he ran a final fantasy board and encouraged little boys between 10-12 to post photos of their dick on a chat board. I banished my daughter from the site, amid her pleas that he only asks boys to do things. A few years later a gamer gate site archive- posted all the things he did [soliciting bestiality, and descriptive pedo posts of him and a toddler he joked he was ‘babysitting’]
      He is one of the sidekicks to the main – transactivists.

      B4uact org [dont link]is what they are calling the new pedo group, and they also claim the 50% suicide rate, according to them: because, according to them, pedos are persecuted adults with rights to molest other people’s kids or their own and they are back.

      They had a record turn out for their ‘conference’
      B4U-ACT welcomed several photo essayists and documentary filmmakers interested in shedding sympathetic light on minor-attracted people (MAPs) in the general population – an encouraging sign that alternative therapeutic perspectives on minor attraction are gaining public interest.

      • neme Says:

        I hope their paedo suicide rate rises to 100%

        Do us all a favour, dudes. Before u act, just fucking end it.

      • RR Says:

        @No Name– Nicholas Nyberg/ Sarah Butts has been mentioned here before– he also admitted in disgusting detail to raping his dog. From what I have gathered, Gamergate is an extended internet creep drama between one group of men and another group of men pretending to be women pretending to be some type of feminist martyrs (the trans creeps being the latter, obviously not female nor feminist). I am curious if/how any of this is supposed to be about women or feminism?

      • No name Says:

        Because Sarah Butts claims to be a radical ‘trans’ feminist, and these guys in the gamergate community don’t realize, he is not really a feminist, and this gives guys the license to attack women more aggressively[they think we protect pedophiles like this]. but the hand maidens at the mary sue published this pedophile’s crap as ‘feminist’ to flame the fire that puts women at risk.

        I am sorry, but Brianna Wu is more tranny-drama like I have witnessed as an ongoing state with these men crying out for extra attention and blaming women for the back lash they get being male-entitled assholes to everyone online to get ‘treated like a real woman’ and dragging other women as ‘the source to blame’ into it.

        This is an emotionally masochistic male that cares little about actual females. This is how he gets off with other men.

      • gunhild Says:

        RR –
        Gamergate began when some dude launched a campaign of harassment towards his ex-girlfriend, female game developer Zoe Quinn, and got the rest of dudebro internet to attack her too
        https://www.polygon.com/2015/4/21/8449291/gamergate-hate-group-domestic-violence-congressional-briefing
        Other women like media critic Anita Sarkeesian were attacked (like usual). The attacks were done by men who simply hate women, men who think the existance of women ruin videogames, and nerds fooled into thinking gamergate was about “ethics in videogame journalism”. (Uuuh)
        Trans dude Brianna Wu got involved, and claims to be attacked for the same misogynist reasons. He has made one shitty game were the female characters look like gross aliens, since he has no idea what real women look like.

      • Rosemary Says:

        @ gunhilde and @no name

        Is Brianna Wu actually transgender? I thought that was just a gamer gate smear tactic, because she is tall and has a non-feminine appearance.

      • GallusMag Says:

        Brianna is a man formerly named John Flynt.

      • Bea Says:

        So this John Flynt guy is a trans “woman” and trans Asian, too?! Holy shit, how crazy can you get?

      • GallusMag Says:

        His husband is Chinese American, Brianna took his last name.

    • gchild Says:

      @edruminations, didn’t we know it would come to this? Why else would the DSM change the language of pedophilia? Softened it? Sneak it in with the language of sexual orientation?

      And yes, “Pedosexuals” are screaming the exact same bullshit lies trans have used. Except theirs is “how would you feel if the only people you wanted to fuck were children and therefore unavailable? Knowing you’d never get to fuck them legally? Knowing you have to abstain from fucking your whole life because you are born pedosexual and laws won’t change cause people are closed minded?”

      It is mostly men because male entitlement makes them think they can/should do whatever they want all because they “feel” like it.

      Whats crazy is people are actually starting to feel sorry for pedophiles! Stick up for them saying they can’t help it. I don’t give a fuck how they feel. Fuck this transpedophile and fuck that person who responded with that “age innapropriate couple” crap. I’ve seen that shit before. And if the pedos at B4-UACT (Pedo support group) start saying they need to fuck kids or die, I propose the government pay for their lethal injections.


      • “@edruminations, didn’t we know it would come to this? Why else would the DSM change the language of pedophilia”

        I’m new to this level of involvement, and unaware of the DSM change. Frankly, I never thought this through…

        Another post here referenced how Dworkin was lightly supportive of trans. Me, too, back in her day. I just assumed people who transitioned were gay, which was a mental illness during my childhood. Homosexuality used to be against the law…so really the only way a gay person could legally love someone of their sex was to have a sex change.

        iirc, transpeople gained rights and recognition before gays were allowed to marry. So if a gay couple wanted to legally wed, one of them would have to change sex. Thank Goddess that’s changing.

        I didn’t know about “trans lesbians” until one dated my ex. I just couldn’t wrap my brain around it. When I (rather recently) learned the word “autogynphelia,” it all made sense. (He had a fetish for strippers and pantyhose which real lesbians don’t.)

        But yeah…OF COURSE pedos would want to be perceived as female. Society inherently trusts women around children. Rosie O’Donnell got static when she said she would never hire a “manny” to take care of her kids. No, not all men are twisted, but who wants to take the risk? Especially with their kid.

        We are now living in a scary Margaret Atwood novel: pedos are “becoming” women to gain trust and access to children, as well as lobby AS women to change laws that benefit *pedos*. Pure horror.

        They say hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, but nothing is more dangerous than a blocked cock. Men kill over sex every day. Sex is the major drive for them.

        Poor guys. I’d probably want to cut off my balls, too, if I were a man. And I chose to live as a boy for a couple years as a child so it’s not like I’m gender conforming. But I wasn’t trans…just a happy tomboy who grew up to be a happy lesbian. Such a thing does exist. Being gay is not the end of the world.

        A lot of good intentioned people STILL haven’t thought this through.😦

      • CKDexterHaven Says:

        Yep, the truly scary thing is that, far from crowds with pitchforks baying for blood, there has always been sympathy for child abusers. We live in a world where real cruelty isn’t raping a child, real cruelty is men not getting to stick their dick in whomever they like, and postmodern thinking only exacerbates this problem. In the postmodern world being ‘judgemental’, ‘moralising’ or having some kind of newly thought-up privilege is far worse than being a rapist. Us nasty ‘white feminists’ even have to be ‘intersectional’ to people who would kill our kids.

        In the UK there used to be an organisation called the Paedophile Information Exchange that tried to gain some respectability for paedophiles. There has been an Establishment cover-up of paedophilia that has gone right to the top of government. There was a documentary on Channel 4 a while ago where a paedophile basically blubbed and moaned about how hard life was for him not being able to abuse children and his snivelling worked! Women were talking about how we, not he, must change and be more compassionate and accommodating to these people in society. This is the modus operandi of child abusers. They play on women’s social conditioning to be nice and inveigle their way into their children’s lives. There are very few true paedophiles anyway. Most men who abuse children are common or garden sadists and rapists and children make the easiest of pickings.

        I totally fucking despair over what feminism has been allowed to become. I totally fucking despair that a movement to liberate all women from oppression has been infiltrated by child abusers, sex fetishists, pimps and their handmaidens. I totally fucking despair that ‘feminists’ are competing over who gets to be the master’s favourite slave instead of working to make all women free. I totally fucking despair that postmodernism has made feminism stand for everything and everyone and, therefore, nothing and no-one. I totally fucking despair that, if you do actually want to liberate women from oppression, then you’re the one who’s a hateful bigot.

        I mentioned elsewhere that a Women’s Equality Party had just started up in the UK. It’s already gone to shit and started spouting the ‘of course, trans women are women’ line. I wonder if they know that, once you’ve been pushed over on that one, somewhere down the line you have to accept that ‘feminism has to be for paedophiles too’?

      • kesher Says:

        As with rape of adult women, historically, the crime isn’t raping a child, per se, it’s raping a child who belongs to a particular man. Families seek to prevent predation from outside the family unit, but, within it, the abuse is no big deal. Children who don’t have an owner (who are homeless or lack a guardian who gives a damn) are completely fair game.


      • Then you would also threaten kids who mate with kids, or kids who touch themselves. Unless you’re insexual like the other prudes here, that should include yourself.

      • CKDexterHaven Says:

        @Autymn D.C.

        Having looked at your Twitter page I’ve now decided those websites that can generate random, postmodernist essays have developed the capability to generate random, postmodernist people.

      • alysdexia Says:

        CKDexterHaven, this isn’t Twitter; don’t at me. I’m not random nor postmodernist. I spend a huge amount of time in dictionaries and had a few breakdowns after findan Wikipedia and online dictionaries in 2004 and saw that etýma were not respected, words were often mistranslated or equivocated, and English words were lost after the death of English 1000 years ago by the Norman Conquest. Clinicians and scientists aren’t lingvists and therefore coin barbarisms or compounds whose stems they don’t know the meanings of.

  6. mayimoktoo Says:

    I am very sympathetic towards non-acting pedophiles and wish there was more space for them to safely work through their issues.

    Non-acting only. People who groom and rape 15 year olds get no sympathy at all. People who dump all the responsibility on the child (Their choice, their body, their autonomy, etc.) can only be described as evil. But this person? He sought out a “gender-confused” child and wormed his way into the child’s family in order to groom & rape. Then justifies it with a million word essay explaining that this was all caused by his own childhood rape. And whines that “feminists” should be more empathetic. This is a monster.

    I certainly hope that there is some legal recourse. So much of the damage is already done but perhaps getting the child away from this predator and into some sort of sexual assault therapy will allow for a chance to heal.

    This is so awful that I’m shaking with wrath.

    • dbrvnk Says:

      Why be so sympathetic to the non-acting ones though? Yes so they’re sexually fucked up… but orgasms aren’t exactly a right, let alone a need. It’s possible to lead a perfectly healthy and happy life without experiencing sexual attraction or pleasure. And those ‘non-practicing’ paedos are still creating demand for child porn—thus indirectly participating in the rape of children—and contributing to a culture where paedophilia is considered normal and a ‘sexual orientation’. Sympathizing with them just validates their paraphilia and makes them feel like incredibly brave and praiseworthy individuals for *not* raping children or watching child porn. (And even then they’re probably getting off to drawings, and fetishes are a feedback loop, they require escalation) I don’t understand the logic at all. The less support for paedos, I’d think, the better.

      • mayimoktoo Says:

        By non-acting, I am including those who don’t consume child pornography. Porn is sexual abuse. Full stop. Even if the prostituted performers are adults.

        However, I should have made that more clear. The “If they can’t watch, they might rape” argument is brought up all the time and it is complete sickening bullshit. This idea that there should be women and children who exist to be raped so that the rest of us can be “safe.” Safe in quotes because when are any women or children really safe? No.

        I have sympathy for anyone who has anti-social urges but does not act on them, seeks ways to not harm and learn to be more socially healthy. I also realize that particular strain of pedo is probably a unicorn. Either that or we never hear about them because they are trying not to think about raping children and so aren’t find ways to talk about it all the time and everywhere.

    • gchild Says:

      It starts with being “sympathetic “.

      And no, I’m not saying sympathy for pedophiles a “slippery slope”. That we are even discussing this shit, that people are reconsidering whether or not it is harmful, distinquishing between coersed child sex abuse and gently raping a child with his/her consent means something else entirely.

      Defending pedophiles because they can’t help how they feel doesn’t mean we are sliding down a slippery slope. No, it means we have touched the fucking bottom of the patriarchal male entitled swamp.


    • To think of pedos as victims of pedophilia is the ultimate gas lighting. They know exactly what they’re doing, and they are fully responsible for the “urges” that they willfully cultivate.

      • Relieved Says:

        “Minor attracted” my ass. Anyone of any intelligence, compassion or sanity will call them EXACTLY what they are: child rapists and child predators. Still, with the way the media has been able to completely legitimize trans-children in the eyes of the law in just a few years, the possibility of the media trying to legitimize pedos is frightening.

        However, considering how fond many lefty outlets are of running pieces about progressive dudebros who are “definitely not pedos” but instead innocent flowers that are mere misunderstood ebibophiles (I hate typing that stupid word and I HOPE I spelled it wrong because it deserves no legitimacy). I don’t have a lot of hope.

        That is honestly not far off from several current “news stories” out there defending men’s absurd attempts to legitimize obviously abusive sexual behavior by trying to play the victim. The media loves these types of stories because they play into overall internet pornification of the news (my local newspaper, no kidding, now has a section labeled XXX one Saturday a month where they run news stories about porn and porn stars – so progressive of them!). Predators of all stripes often play “wounded bird” (think Ted Bundy) to soften people up an make them more trusting, and these politicized pedos are no different.

        I strongly suspect that the reason it has blown up as “the next big progressive thing” is Big Pharma blatantly colluding with the media. It’s a scary reality check, and it needs to be stopped in its tracks ASAP before we all get labeled “pedophobes”.


    • Porn is not sexual abuse. Your misrepresentations and assertions are thus sexual abuse.

      Sexual pleasure relieves hormones that may otherwise cause cancers; it of course relieves stress; it extends life. Bonobo society successfully makes use of nonsexist nonageist sexual contact and is not as violent as the chimpanzee who regularly attacks males and children over ownership of single females.

      • soporificat Says:

        Are you a trans bonobo? Maybe you should go and see if the bonobos will validate your identity. Then you won’t have to deal with the fact that human society frowns on pedophilia.

        Good luck and bon voyage!

      • Oak and Ash Says:

        “Are you a trans bonobo? Maybe you should go and see if the bonobos will validate your identity.”

        Perfect. Just perfect.


    • As long as the prudes here abuse words they may be called out on their word rape.

      • Relieved Says:

        “Word rape”? Bonobo porn? Prudes? Non-ageist sexual contact?

        You are really trying hard to be offensive here aren’t you, big man? I know you are a man because only men think “rape” and “abuse” is real born women saying something they don’t like. I have a feeling the blog owner will be along shortly to hand you your ass, so I won’t bother.

      • shediogenes Says:

        wow, really diggin deep for those misogynist tropes aren’t cha “Autymn”? LOL, ‘prudes’ Yawn.

      • alysdexia Says:

        Can’t contribute to the subject so you derail it.

        “pedophilia” = kidfriendship; filo = friend. No it doesn’t. Society frowns on erastopædia. Opponents of underage sex, ageists, fall into three groups: prudes, cretins, and breeders. The first project their bodily hangups and flaws onto others. The next believe in fantasy worlds and instructions. The third keep children as property. There may not be cretins in this group as there are no appeals to imaginary friends. But they are guilty of being in the other two.

        I can’t help whether my words are offensive; that is your fault. I also know you are a man, Relieved, as men are a species and not a sex (wapmen), and you’re guilty of the same thing you accused me of.

        shediogenes, you’re deluded and borderline personality.

      • LC Says:

        In other words, @alysdexia, the only ones who DON’T oppose pedophilia are people who don’t give a shit about children(having none themselves) or morality and ethics. Their own sexual obsessions are more important than anyone else’s welfare or any abuse of power. Your words aren’t nearly as offensive as the fact that you might not be in prison or a mental institute for your obvious desire to abuse children.

        Also… your contribution to the subject is to call people names who disagree with you? Cute. Get help.

      • GallusMag Says:

        I’m basically just approving some of his comments in case they come in handy for law enforcement at some point in future.

  7. kesher Says:

    I’ve seen a number of stories about people (“genderqueer”, FTTs, MTTs, it doesn’t seem to matter) being raped by MTTs whose only means of getting away from the predator was to abandon the trans community entirely.

    Not only does the trans movement have a pedophile and rapist problem (quelle surprise considering MTTs aren’t any less violent than men and considering how many are just straight-out, non-dysphoric pervs), it operates like any other cult in how it handles accusations against its members. The predator is protected at all costs; the victim is demonized and cast out.


  8. What does, “plus it already happened mean”?

    Is this 22 year old trans, genderqueer dude in a dress saying that he already had sex with the 15 year old?

    It seems like he is trying to get pedophilia classified as just another opppressed minority, but the nasty feminists just aren’t buying it. Similar to the way transgender activists play on the sympathy of women, but viciously turn on them when they aren’t the center of attention.

    This guy wants to blame it all on evil “feminist” because women know that creepy 22 year old men, even if they are wearing a dress, have no business dating a 15 year old girls.

    This creep is just taking advantage of a 15 year old confused girl.

    WTF does this mean,

    “None of these feminists have seemed interested in anything actually relevant to our relationship dynamics.”

    No mother wants this creep anywhere near her 15 year old daughter.

    “Some people upon finding out a relationship I’m involved in has a legally wonky age gap (I am 22 and they are 15) decide that I am literally a rapist and xe is literally a victim and that’s the end of it. None of these feminists have seemed interested in anything actually relevant to our relationship dynamics, interested in hearing my partners opinions on our relationship, and in this they completely miss some key points in their condemnation.”

    What do these creepy crossdressing, trans dudes do when they feel no one loves them? They bash feminists because it’s all about his needs. He even lists how oppressed his is, and it’s “at the hands of feminists”.

    “What has happened to me at the hands of feminists?”

    • mayimoktoo Says:

      No mother wants this creep anywhere near her 15 year old daughter.

      I wish that were true but I’ve seen too many cases where the mother was having difficulties dealing with their teen (both boys & girls) and welcomed an adult who could get through to the child. Even if that adult was sexually attracted.

      The 15 year old in question is described as a victim of earlier sexual abuse, gender confused, and suicidal. The trans activists really, really love to focus on suicide. If the 15 year old has been self-harming, a relationship with a 22 year old might seem the lesser of two evils if the other option seems to be death.

      In other words, it’s sometimes possible to brainwash parents as well.

  9. GallusMag Says:

    [Archiving]

    Stephanie Smith
    Yesterday at 8:38pm
    Did some admin on here seriously admit to being a pedo?
    1813Like · Comment · Share
    Top Comments
    Maria Alvestad-Ereth, Kurenai VanWinkle, Beth Black and 15 others like this.

    Anna Lee Yea. The whole thing was triggering as fk
    about an hour ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Sorry you were hurt but my being a pedo has nothing to do with your experiences, and my relationship is not defined solely by yours or anybody else’s experienced.
    about an hour ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse It’s not like the confession just ended at that, if you want to see the story itself tons of people have screenshots of it, I made sure they did, I just didn’t want to be subject to the often quite violent and harassing opinions of people who pretend to be concerned about my partner when they don’t know FUCK all about the situation.
    2 · 6 hours ago
    Hide 25 Replies

    Stephanie Smith You’re like 21 and your partner is 15 right? That’s sort of…I believe that’s the age of consent here in the UK and emancipation to consider, so yeah, I’m interested in the full facts, but I’m a tad squeamish on it. I don’t want to harass anyone, just heard about it from another page and came here to see for myself.
    2 · 5 hours ago

    Ilan Smolders I got blocked for it too😐
    5 hours ago

    Stephanie Smith what?
    5 hours ago

    Ilan Smolders I got blocked for talking about pedophilia. C blocked me
    5 hours ago

    Stephanie Smith You should be blocked from feminist pages anyway, since you harassed and invited others to stalk a suicidal girl who blocked you due to you giving her shit over self-harming.
    4 · 5 hours ago

    Ilan Smolders I never said they should stalk her. and Im sorry for what I did. I only asked two people to talk to F.. I regret saying what I said, and im really sorry I hurt her
    5 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse 1. it’s important to recognize that my lifestyle and emotional maturity probably does not match up with other adults my age, given that I am basically reliving my puberty on estrogen. Additionally because both me and Juju are in the same societal posistion as high school drop outs (bullying) and I am basically work from home while xe does online school so…

    2. People wonder what we could possibly have in common with this age gap, what a rude question to ask of any relationship, but here I go!

    We both have experiences with CSA, high school drop-outism, all the adults around us are oppressive jerks, LGBT activism, similar attractions (wow huh?), anime, femme people, makeup, dresses, the need for physical comfort. We may not be a standard couple but it’s not like our age gap makes us completely unable to relate to one another like many seem to imply.

    3. I am a survivor of CSA, so is my partner, so I know and xe knows how to identify grooming and abusive behaviours (admittedly I am in a better posistion to understand and deal with it though) and as the adult in the relationship I have to and I do make concious efforts to minimize the effects of grooming on my partner as much as I can. Some stuff is unavoidable, despite what people will say, I can’t help having my partner look up to me in some respect, for example. I recognize the problems typically associated with these kinds of relationships and I am actively making sure they don’t become an issue. I believe that thanks to my best efforts, despite certain issues being doomed to be prominent in relationships like ours, our relationship, in the grand scheme of things is less problematic than most relationships ever. I want to note how relationships like ous are put under fucking microscopes and over-examined for any small amount of abuse, something nobody does in any similar degree to abusive adult – adult relationships, until it’s too late. What were asking for is room to exist as a couple who isn’t perfect, like any other couple, who will make mistakes, will break boundaries, might make each other cry, yet we should still be respected in our wishes to be seen as a legitimate queer couple.

    Just consider that the very fact t I need to describe this to people is gross, they should’ve never poked their noses this far into our relationship, we should’ve been shown compassion and understanding from the very beginning. Instead commentors here spoke over my partner, forced a victim narrative over xir, called xir partner an abuser when xe DAMN WELL KNOWS what abuse looks like and generally came off as extremely abusive and yes my partner was deeply traumatized and hurt by this. Shame on anyone who victimized xir this way thinking they were ‘saving’ xir.
    5 · 5 hours ago · Edited

    Ilan Smolders I hope you are feeling well you both actually
    5 hours ago

    Stephanie Smith Wait what is the age difference though?
    5 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse What a reactionary fuck.
    5 hours ago

    Ilan Smolders what?
    5 hours ago

    Stephanie Smith “I want to note how relationships like ous are put under fucking microscopes and over-examined for any small amount of abuse, something nobody does in any similar degree to abusive adult – adult relationships, until it’s too late. ” This is the validest of points though.
    1 · 5 hours ago

    Ilan Smolders Why are we creepy Jonathan?
    5 hours ago

    Stephanie Smith Jon seriously fuck off, and how the fuck do you keep finding my posts on these things?
    5 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse 22-15
    5 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse 16 is age of consent here
    5 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Thanks for the kind words after every kind of threat imaginable.
    1 · 5 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Question my relationship, fine, but have the damn facts first.
    2 · 5 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Yeah why don’t I just roll over and let ignorant fucking hivemind reactionaries beat on me.
    2 · 4 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Btw my partner is not a girl, they’re a fucking agender person and I’m tired of the misinformation, god these people incriminating and harassing me act like they got me me but they don’t understand even basic fucking details about the situation.
    1 · 4 hours ago

    Stephanie Smith I genuinely didn’t intend to misgender them, I’m really sorry, and the irony of this being a page about destroying Cissexism isn’t lost on me at all jeeze
    3 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Mostly that anger is for those who continued to misgender my partner throughout the aftermath, not you.
    1 · 3 hours ago

    Stephan

    • Rosemary Says:

      “it’s important to recognize that my lifestyle and emotional maturity probably does not match up with other adults my age, given that I am basically reliving my puberty on estrogen. ”

      so transition automatically makes you trans-aged

      • No name Says:

        ALL Pedophiles claim to be sexually at the same age of the children they molest. This provides an excuse for child molesters. Notice how the adult transitions don’t dare take lupron? It kills your sex drive too- and men don’t want that. This is not the first pedo confession in the trans camp. All you have to do is look.

        http://www.buddybuddy.com/consent.html
        archived at https://archive.is/ZywlO#selection-51.2-51.34

        this is how they are campaigning pedophilia, notice how this org leaves out ‘transgender’ in their ‘lower the consent age’ ‘gay’ campaign.

        Men claiming to be ‘gay’ want to lower the consent age to 11 in this ‘gay’ org in Washington..

        They also mention the absents of Lesbians being guilty of being listed sexual predators. Like they are favored, and should be listed, despite this being an org that represents them-

        ” Curiously, in many countries, lesbians are not mentioned in the sexual behavior laws at all.”

        So the pedos hate lesbians just like the [tran]man’s activists-I would bet -These are the same mans pedo activists. If their pedo thing goes south, they will blame lesbians first, and gay men next. They are keeping ‘trans’ off these pedo documents, purposely while they campaign for access to children.

  10. GallusMag Says:

    [Archiving]

    Amber Edmison
    Today at 1:25pm
    Literally just joined this group to support this admin under attack. The relationship is only demonized by modern society and until 100 years ago was perfectly acceptable. Hell, it still is in 8/10ths of the world. Y’all watch Disney movies, don’t you? Same shit there and I don’t see anyone freaking the fuck out.
    17Like · Comment · Share
    Top Comments
    Brianna Brattybee likes this.

    Michaël Henkens slavery was also perfectly acceptable…
    2 · about an hour ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Useless pedantic shit going on here, please show yourself out.
    about an hour ago

    Amber Edmison You guys are literally proving my point. What is going to be acceptable in another 50 years? I have a feeling it’s going to be this.
    about an hour ago

    Michaël Henkens all i did was point out that justifying what was acceptable in the past doesn’t say anything about wether it’s moral or not.

    //You guys are literally proving my point. What is going to be acceptable in another 50 years?//
    doesn’t really matter does it, not until it changes, right now Cecelia repeatedly stated she would not act on her pedophilic urges, yet revealed she has a relationship with a minor. which is illegal and considered immoral.
    how things may become or have been has no bearing on the situation whatsoever.
    1 · about an hour ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse I am not raping my partner, I am not abusing my partner, if you think so then show yourself the fuck out, don;t quibble on about legality when laws still exist on our books which allow people to use the “trans panic defense”
    1 · about an hour ago

    Michaël Henkens both of you have been through a lot and that’s clouding your judgements, look around in the comments you’ve received, tons of people who themselves were in a relationship with adults when they were minors have said that they didn’t realize it was abuse until years later. *listen to them*
    about an hour ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse We’ve considered them, they amount to harassment now, gtfo.
    1 · about an hour ago

    Michaël Henkens then the only thing i can do is hope that the resulting scars won’t be too deep.
    about an hour ago

    Brianna Brattybee concern trolls *sigh*
    33 minutes ago

    Amber Edmison Not that you need justification, but I figured I’d leave this here for anyone who wondered. It’s a copy of what I said in a group discussing this page.

    I just think there is a distinct line between abuse and morality subjective. Abuse is forceful. Abuse is non consensual. Abuse is distortion of power over another (if one party is a teacher, for example).

    The “legal age of consent” is an arbitrary number put in place to govern activities such as the purchase of alcohol, the ability to work (child labor laws needed an age), and voting.

    Religion is the ONLY reason the government ever had any say in the sex lives of the people. As a group of atheists, I figured you would all see this for what it was.

    Obviously child rape is a thing. And obviously a pre-pubescent child had no understanding of a sexual relationship. But a fifteen year old…

    Because of the past CSA, I’d probably advocate for a therapist to clear the mentality of both parties, but morally, I see nothing wrong with this.
    1 · 2 hours ago

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse People also forget were both victims of CSA, we both have the same attractions and inclinations…
    1 · 2 hours ago · Edited

    Amber Edmison Right. And although “past abuse doesn’t justify future abuse” I don’t see this as abuse. At all. Going out and acting on urges in a seven year old, or a fifteen year old who is not willing, that’s a problem. But you’re both consensual.
    2 hours ago · Edited

    Destroying Cissexism In Feminist Discourse Thanks for supporting me and my partner Amber.
    2 hours ago

    Amber Edmison Lol, they kicked me out of the group and blocked me for defending you. What a joke, haha. Didn’t know it was so awful to look at things logically instead of emotionally.
    2 hours ago

    Amber Edmison Morality is subjective to the current cultural climate. I’d expect more people to understand that.
    2 hours ago

    • australopithecene Says:

      Oh my fucking god. I’m glad they are starting to be open about their pedophilia activism. No-one believes radfems when they talk about the connection between pedos and autogynephiles Now, thanks to you Gallus, we can point to conversations like this.

      • mayimoktoo Says:

        After the confession, there was a lengthy discussion. A personal named “Juju” claimed to be the 15 year old in question and defended the pedo. It was mostly “Why aren’t people respecting my autonomy? Why don’t you trust me to make my own decisions? If you care about kids why aren’t you letting me be happy?”

        It’s impossible to tell if it was the pedo typing or if it was just a thoroughly coached and groomed child. Either way, it was a heartbreaking look at the way this poor child had been brainwashed. I had to step away.

      • CKDexterHaven Says:

        It’s the whole Pat Califia ‘9 year olds have sexual agency and are empowered by sex and if you don’t let grown men fuck them you are the oppressor’ bullshit. Aaaaarrrrgghh!

        I’d say we need to let these men talk and show mainstream society who they really are but the mainstream media is so tentative when dealing with them.

      • GallusMag Says:

        Jenn Burleton of TransActive calls it “Adultism”:

        In No Uncertain Terms: Advocating for Trans*Youth in the Face of Ciscentric Oppression and Adultism
        February 27, 2013
        4-5:30 PM. Location ASRC 620
        Join TransActive Education and Advocacy, a recognized leader in Trans* Youth Services, for an interactive skill-building workshop. Use supportive language and TransActive’s best practices for advocacy to subvert power dynamics of age and gender, affirming the identities and agency of trans* youth.

        https://www.pdx.edu/dmss/event/culture-and-conversation-series-facilitated-conversations-diverse-communities-no-uncertain-terms?delta=0

        “joe Feminism” Joelle Ruby Ryan was another big trans “adultism activist”.

    • Bea Says:

      I have only met a handful of MtT (not counting a few non-transitioned male-identified crossdressing autogynephiles)…and one of them I’m sure is a pedophile. He has posted pedo-sympathetic articles on social media, and I have friends who know him better and agree. I’m actually suspicious he transitioned as a way to lower his sex drive to prevent himself from violating children. It sounds like that may have been part of this guy’s strategy. I hope he gets arrested. At least he’s most likely sterile, my first thought was he would end up impregnating her and drop her to go trawling the local middle school. I wonder if she realizes she’s going to “age out” of his affections.


      • “I’m actually suspicious he transitioned as a way to lower his sex drive to prevent himself from violating children.”

        Nowhere in Vantine’s manifesto does he indicate he always knew he was female, wanted to be a girl, or will die if he’s not perceived as female.

        I had no idea that pedos transitioned as a way to control their perversion. This blog continues to enlighten me. No way these freaks should be allowed in women’s bathrooms. They are not women in any way.

        It’s like they want women to be blow-up sex dolls. And because most women don’t want to be such, they’re making themselves women so they can do whatever they want with at least one woman. That’s why they’re transforming themselves into sex dolls.

        Isn’t there an industry for realistic sex dolls? Seems like I saw a documentary on it on YT.

        That dude who “confessed” to killing Jon Benet Ramsey…was obsessed with little girls who dressed and acted like dolls. And he too transitioned to female…so he could sexualize himself as a doll/toy/object/plaything.

      • GallusMag Says:

        Men with autogynephilia often go on hormones as a way to both ramp up their participation in their sexual obsession and also decrease the occurrence of spontaneous undesired public erections.

      • kesher Says:

        “I had no idea that pedos transitioned as a way to control their perversion.”

        They also transition as a way to gain access to children. At least that’s their stated reason. Whether most kids would be comfortable with a PIW lurking around is another matter, but I’m certainly not going to accuse a pedophile MTT of being rational or having even the vaguest notion of how children perceive creepy adults.


      • I’ve seen at least two cases where men pretended to be women to gain access to children. One couple hired a live-in nanny, only to find out several years later he was a man, and had molested their child. They hired this guy based on references from friends, and the friends didn’t know either. Another case the man was working at a daycare center and no one knew he was a man.

        People are a lot less likely to trust their child with a man, I know I am. I’ve taught my children if they’re ever lost or need help to look for a “mommy person” a woman with children. (They’re brown boys I’d never teach them to go to a policeman.) Obviously, going to a woman is no guarantee, and there are certainly abusive women, but usually they’re working in cahoots with a male partner. Still, most people consider a woman overall to be a safer bet. Pedophiles know this, and behave accordingly. They’ll get kids, or women to help them lure. Or, dress as women themselves.


      • I hope you and everyone you care about are arrested for felony sexual abuse of a minor, where the minor was yourself (1USC1).

    • mayimoktoo Says:

      Abused children are more vulnerable to further abuse. It’s as if the predators are setting up victims for themselves. And it’s getting worse,

      (trigger warning)http://www.thestar.com/news/world/2015/04/26/underground-child-porn-trade-moving-toward-youngest-victims.html
      Sexualized images of children under the age of 9, most depicting explicit sexual acts, represent the largest and fastest-growing category in Canada’s underground child pornography trade

      Watching this pedo throw a fit because his exploitative relationship isn’t celebrated is sickening. Even more disgusting because he’s slyly but purposefully bragging about taking advantage of this child. It’s absolute vile.

      In other news: I’d be willing to bet actual money that Amber Edmison wasn’t born “Amber.”

    • Zemskull Says:

      I’m always intrigued by people comparing age of consent laws state by state and country by country. My rule is that if you find yourself having to look up the laws of your municipality to determine the legality of your intended partnering, he or she is too young for you.

      I’m not surprised, however, that a transgender does not respect age of consent laws. I’ve heard transgenders use vague terms about all of their demographics, e.g. “This gender, age and race that society says my body occupies.” It’s as if they believe all of their demographics are negotiable. As such, a 22-year-old may feel that the laws for 22-year-olds in respect to sexual partners do not apply to him.

    • endthewoo Says:

      it’s important to recognize that my lifestyle and emotional maturity probably does not match up with other adults my age, given that I am basically reliving my puberty on estrogen.

      I was wondering when we would see the progression of identity politics to this point : Oh, he “identifies” as a teenager, so it can’t possibly be molestation. Why he’s barely even 15 himself !!

      Creepy abusive shits.

      (I know the dressing up as a baby fetishists have been around for a while, but don’t think they tend to use it as a excuse for abusing actual kids)

      • Zemskull Says:

        I identify as a thin,attractive 22-year-old, but my body doesn’t seem to agree. Maybe my health insurance should pay for cosmetic surgery for me.

      • shediogenes Says:

        he claims he doesnt have the maturity of his peers due to childhood sexual abuse or going thru a 2nd puberty from taking estrogen, so he shouldnt be held accountable for dating a 15 yr old, but claims that he does have the maturity and wisdom to safely date said 15 yr old and be conscientious enough not to take advantage of the grooming of kid who also endured CSA. Typical bs, have it both ways, any argument that permits him to rape a kid

    • Relieved Says:

      My favorite part was when he says (paraphrasing), “Come on, you guys are atheists! You should be fine with this!” As if not believing in God automatically makes a person ok with sexual predators and statutory rape.

      • KgSch Says:

        That is particularly laughable considering how many child rapist priests the Catholic Church protected. Clearly being religious doesn’t automatically make one against pedophiles.

  11. Zemskull Says:

    This topic led me to reminiscence about high school, when I knew several teen girls who were romantically/sexually involved with adult men. Without exception, every one of those girls grew up to have serious mental problems in adulthood, from long-term drug addiction to suicide.

    • weirdward Says:

      Yes, this. At my high school in a low demographic area, there were lots of vulnerable teen girls who were already being abused/neglected at home, who got into these creepy relationships with adult men, genuinely believing the men loved them when it was obvious the men were taking advantage and abusing. One 15 year old ran away with her 21 year old boyfriend and disappeared … No one ever saw or heard from her again. She probably ended up dead and/or prostituted.

      • Zemskull Says:

        I’ve seen a statistic that, in some states, half of all teen mothers on welfare were impregnated by men over age 25. Not only can these men mentally harm these girls, they don’t provide for their resulting offspring. And the taxpayer and the girl’s family are often left to pick up the slack. Most of these men do not face criminal repercussions, either.


      • Precisely Zemskull and that’s why prosecution of statutory rape took off in the 90s as a part of welfare reform. These men go from girl to girl like some type of goddamned conveyor belt. The record I saw was a 35 yo who had nearly a dozen underaged girls pregnant. So yeah, not only does the poor child pay the cost, so does their children and society as a whole.

    • TheDailyMale Says:

      Cartoonist Phoebe Gloeckner delves into her experiences through the character Minnie Goetze in her semi-autobiographical works “A Child’s Life” and “Diary of a Teenage Girl.” I recommend her work–if you can stomach it.

    • Biscuit Says:

      Yes. A friend of mine had a very rough home life and as a teen was involved with an adult man. In the end, she came to realize she was being exploited. That further damaged her mental health as well.

      • nonny Says:

        Biscuit- you could be talking about me, and so many other young women I’m sure. My mother is an abusive narcissist and let my 20 year old “boyfriend” move in when I was barely 14. He was suffocatingly clingy and emotionally abusive…..and he paid half the rent. At the time I thought it was romantic. It took me over 15 more years to see that I’d essentially been sold.

    • Relieved Says:

      There was an study done about these types of relationships a while back that spanned many years. If I can find a link, I will post it. The study in particular looked at heavy age gap relationships between very young women and older men.

      When they first interviewed the young women, almost all of them said they felt their relationships with older men were completely egalitarian, that there was no coercion or manipulation on the part of the older men, and that they were only in these relationships because of “common interests”.

      When they interviewed the same women several years later, all of the respondents responded that having had the benefit of age and wisdom, they felt that they had been manipulated and duped by the older men and that they had been too naive to understand the unbalanced power dynamics at the time. Interesting stuff.

      • demonista Says:

        Relieved, I would much appreciate the link to that study.

        (Hi, Gallus, I’m a long time reader, first time commenter. Thank you so much for this site!)

  12. shediogenes Says:

    Yeah, I’m all in favor of pedo suicide. In pomo translandia, that makes me a horrible person, and this sick fuck gets to define womanhood.

    • shediogenes Says:

      let me clarify, I favor pedos who act on their impulses and commit CSA offing themselves.

      • gchild Says:

        So called “non acting” pedos are still predators. They defend pedophilia as a sexual orientation while denying that it causes real harm. Why admit to being a non acting pedo? Cause just like mtt autogynophiles, expressing/sharing their desires (to fuck kids) gets them off. Especially within the safe arms of our moral subjectivity and political correctness.

        Non acting pedos might not be grooming children (yet), but in gaining our sympathy and support, they are grooming the hell out of us.

      • shediogenes Says:

        If there exist people (men) who have pedo impulses and are successfully suppressing their impulses, including not using child porn and not engaging in grooming, I wont be in favor of giving them a stocking full of razor blades every christmas. I have serious doubts about the existence of “non-acting” pedos, just as have doubts about “notallmen”, but on the slim chance they do exist outside speshul unicorn land, then by all means, take libido suppressors and attend shrink visits (with a male shrink, dont make women endure your theraputic needs) 7 days a weeks until you drop dead of natural causes. The rest can swallow metal filings and aspirin and go fuckin die a painful death. On a positive note, it was just a few years ago my pedo uncle finally had the decency to stick a shotgun in his mouth and pull the trigger. Buh-bye and burn in hell uncle jeff.

      • mayimoktoo Says:

        gchild said: Non acting pedos might not be grooming children (yet), but in gaining our sympathy and support, they are grooming the hell out of us.

        I hadn’t considered this but you’re right. I’ve had sympathy for non-acting pedos for years but I think it was knee-jerk. “Oh, they’re trying so hard to be good people, even though they have such bad thoughts!” But even non-acting pedos are still discussing child rape. The worst of them are arguing semantics (hebophile, ephebophile, etc) while trying to justify their attractions or push boundaries.

        Are we supposed to hand out medals every time some pervert doesn’t do something awful? What about that certain percentage of men who would rape if they could get away with it but haven’t yet? Do they get a cookie for not being a violent predator?

        If there is treatment that makes pedos less likely to harm, I support that. But I no longer support any pedo who discusses his vile perversion in public, regardless of how non-acting he is. Creating a “safe space” for discussion is too close to eroding the few social barriers that are left.


  13. Even without all the pedo tranny stuff, there is no place for HIM in feminism. Because his MALE.
    See how simple it can be if you’re not a po-mo follower? Male born people must stay out of our safe spaces and out of feminism! No conflicting issue or anything.
    I really cannot believe this MAN thinks feminism out to let HiM in! And make a space for a man with 2 dangerous paraphelias!!! This guy is more male than typical men, with these insane demands.

    I can see how feeling hated for being a pedo with his mans body would lead him to be a MTT. Whether it’s because he really had the feelings he wrote about, or if he is just being cynical and finding the best way to get away w it. It makes sense.

    But it does not matter. He MUST stay away from anyone under 18. But he’s dating a 15yr old? Um, that’s acting in those urges, the urges that he just claimed he didn’t act on….

    I can’t imagine having such feelings. And those that do, have a responsibility to stay away from kids. Stay out of safe spaces. Realize they are a predator and try to fix this. I know you can change your sexual need for BDSM, why not this?

    • a cat Says:

      It’s not very easy to change your need for S, M or any other paraphilia. However you always, ALWAYS have the responsibility not to be the kind of bastard who indulges your issue at the expense of others. And that can take multiple forms, including grooming 15 year old girls to think they are genderqueer paedophiles.

      I find this person disgusting and disgraceful. I find his defense of his activities with “Juju” to be beyond the pale and I don’t think this will stop here either. He’s attracted by the fact she’s underage. It’s a fetish. I think when she ages out he’ll pick another. And do the same again.

      • Zemskull Says:

        I have seen some rare cases in which an adult-child couple stays together as the victim ages into adulthood, but those don’t tend to be the healthiest relationships. The victim is often expected to stay in the submissive role despite reaching adulthood.

      • kesher Says:

        Vili Fualauu and Mary Kay Letourneau are still together. I don’t know the details of their relationship, but Fualauu has never struck me as a well-adjusted adult.

    • Teal Deer Says:

      “But he’s dating a 15yr old? Um, that’s acting in those urges, the urges that he just claimed he didn’t act on….”

      I suspect his “attractions”, as he calls his pedophilic urges, run quite a bit younger and more twisted than his 15-year-old girlfriend fulfills, and he therefore justifies it all by stating he isn’t acting on his pedophilia.

      • morag99 Says:

        Yes, right. If his urges are toward pre-pubescent girls, a 15-year-old girl would seem, to him, sexually mature and a socially legitimate object of attraction. And, just in case that’s still unacceptable, he “identifies” as a teenager going through puberty himself, as a back-up rationalization.

      • shediogenes Says:

        @TealDeer
        Bingo.


  14. When I read this article on my iphone before bed last night, I felt sick. I knew I had to come back and comment.

    When I was 19 or 20, I was in a relationship with a “transwoman” who was much, much older than myself. I can now see how he manipulated me, and how, frankly, scared I was of him, but while I was in the relationship, that wasn’t so clear to me. And frankly, that’s often the way it is with most things; there’s a reason they say that hindsight is 20/20.

    I can’t bear to read this man’s excuses. This is someone who has just admitted to being a pedo, for crying out loud!! Just from reading this guy’s posts, I can see how easy it would be for a 15-year-old to be manipulated by him. But being fifteen and in a relationship with a 22 year old man masquerading as a woman who also demands support for being a pedophile is *not* normal. I’d bet the 15-year-old knows that at some level. And when they do break up, boy is this woman going to have trouble explaining her past relationship to others.

    • Zemskull Says:

      I hope that “JuJu” is not this girl’s real name. It’s traumatic enough that she’s in this relationship, but I hate to think this is going to Google-haunt her for the rest of her life.

    • ED Says:

      No explaining to do, it’s not her fault. The male predator is the one with the explaining to do, not the person/s he victimised.

  15. mayimoktoo Says:

    Oh hey, speaking of completely vile child abuse – Men can lactate now in order to feed their biological offspring.
    http://www.milkjunkies.net/2013/05/trans-women-and-breastfeeding-personal.html

    • gchild Says:

      So the very same people who sexualize breats in the first place (men) will now get to breastfed? The breatsmilk fetishists (men again) will love this. I don’t even want to think about…

    • ImNoCissie Says:

      So she names the blog “Milk Junkies”. Unpacked: Instead of a normal bodily function that exists to nourish your offspring, breastfeeding is a drug that exists to create a high and otherwise satisfy the urges of the one doing the breastfeeding. Very telling.

      And. I didn’t think the linked story of the breastfeeding male transgender could be true, so I googled. And according to Scientific American and a few other sources, men actually can lactate under certain circumstances. But has anyone done any real research on what the composition of “male lactate” actually is? Does it actually nourish the baby? The sources all seem to be anecdotes and not actual research. Fuckin disturbing how the transgender cult loves experimenting on children.

      • No name Says:

        Any HRT that the men are taking gets excreted into the ‘milk’, so his children are on the same hormone treatment the dad takes if he is abusing them frequently.

        Mothers that breastfeed avoid alot of crap, even coffee- because it goes straight to the baby. You are recommended to throw out milk if you have to go on anti-biotics[and they don’t let you breastfeed if you are in the hospital getting any meds].

      • stchauvinism Says:

        He took domperidone://Two weeks after the birth I started pumping and taking domperidone. [Note: Domperidone is a drug generally used to control nausea, but has the side effect of increasing lactation output, often quite dramatically. Domperidone for breastfeeding support is an off-label use of the drug. It can be difficult to obtain for that purpose in some countries such as the US. In others, it is much more commonly available.]//

        from FDA:http://www.fda.gov/Drugs/DevelopmentApprovalProcess/HowDrugsareDevelopedandApproved/ApprovalApplications/InvestigationalNewDrugINDApplication/ucm368736.htm

        //Domperidone is not currently a legally marketed human drug and it is not approved for sale in the U.S. On June 7, 2004, FDA issued a public warning that distributing any domperidone-containing products is illegal. FDA also issued an Import Alert instructing FDA field personnel to detain shipments of finished drug products and bulk ingredients containing domperidone, and refuse admission into the US. FDA took this action because of the concern about the potential serious health risks associated with the use of domperidone by lactating women to enhance breast milk production.
        The risks of cardiac arrhythmias, cardiac arrest, and sudden death outweigh any potential benefit of domperidone in healthy lactating women. In addition, the concurrent use of certain commonly used drugs, such as erythromycin, could raise blood levels of domperidone and further increase the risk of serious adverse cardiac outcomes. In several countries where the oral form of domperidone is marketed, the drug’s labeling specifically warns that nursing mothers should not use it. Furthermore, domperidone is excreted in breast milk, exposing a breastfeeding infant to unknown risks. However, FDA continues to recognize that there are some patients with severe gastrointestinal motility disorders that are difficult to manage with available therapy for whom domperidone’s potential benefits may justify its potential risks.//

        it doesnt seem like a wise choice to needlessly expose an infant to a drug with unknown risks

      • Atranswidow Says:

        My ex used an HRT gel. These are very easily transferable via skin, clothing, towels and bedding. So should this man be using a gel or cream he would have to be very vigilant not to transfer hormone medication to a baby. Side effects of estrogen transfer to children, spouses and even pets have been recorded.

        http://www.virginiahopkinstestkits.com/hormone_transfer.html

        Do these men care? No. My ex accused me of reading the wrong web-sites when i called him out about using the family bath towels.

      • Livvie Says:

        I’m late to this but I cannot believe that this is happening or that it’s in any way healthy for a child. When women lactate it doesn’t express itself as wax. It’s milk. How much hormone is in that ‘milk’? He says ‘within acceptable ranges’ or something like that, which I highly doubt. How safe is this domperidone for the child? Not very, I’ll bet.

        The way this narcissist freak describes the flavor of his ‘breast milk’ as melted ice cream makes me ill. Of course he had to taste it, total autogynephilia. Sexualize everything.

        I truly fear for this child.

      • Dorothy Mantooth Says:

        @Livvie I’m even later than you (I’m catching up after being offline for a while) and hadn’t intended to comment on a post this old, but I *had* to reply to this sick fuck describing the taste of his excretion as “melted ice cream.” How fetishizing/twisted autogynephile!

        That is not what breast milk tastes like. Not at all, not one bit. It is not thick or gloopy, and it certainly doesn’t taste like vanilla.

        (How sad is it, btw, that I was going to explain how I happen to know this, and how it relates to one of the many beneficial uses of breast milk [namely soothing minor skin irritations/clearing superficial infections] but these pervs have so fetishized it that I’m afraid it could read like some sicko’s sexual fantasy, or feed said sicko’s fantasy. Ugh!)

        Sorry for the late comment.

    • prozac. Says:

      Come to think of it, does anyone else question that the child is even 15? I noticed someone had posted a screenshot saying the victim was suicidal, but in that screenshot it asked for someone in the uk to call for help. This dude is in the Toronto area though, and I assumed they were physically together from him saying “it had already happened”. What mother in their right mind would be ok with their daughter dating this guy, especially at 15 or 13??? I suppose she could just be saying she’s with her friend Cecilia (from school, that is, internet school) and no one’s the wiser. Or perhaps he just told her mother when they met that it was ok because he was also sexually abused which makes them the same age. … ???
      “I’m in an age inappropriate relationship”… Sick, and shows that he knows very well what he is doing.

      • prozac. Says:

        Just realized I replied to the wrong comment. Mine was more general but the breastfeeding article made me so sick too. Especially when he was talking about when it first started coming out. There’s just something so disgusting about it, and look at the risk you are exposing a newborn baby to. These people just don’t think twice about things like that… Not when motherly breastfeeding feelings are at stake, oh no! Sure, your pharmaceutical man milk is just what a newborn needs. Daddy’s milk secretions, a nice mouthful of furry man nip, maybe some pus and hormones and no research as to what implications lay down the road for you. That poor baby😦

      • Livvie Says:

        prozac you said exactly what I was thinking. How on earth can something that initially presents as ‘wax’ in any way be considered breast milk?

        I’m so disgusted by this that I feel physically ill. When will this end? It sounds insane but I wish I were fifty years back in time when this kind of bullshit wasn’t even a thought. Technology isn’t always such a great thing, maybe.

      • KgSch Says:

        “Age-inappropriate relationship” is a popular euphemism these pedophiles come up with. So is a recently made-up set of “philias” to describe being attracted to teenagers, so the pedophile into teenagers can say “I’m not a complete perv unlike the ones attracted to prepubescent children.” Another one I heard was “cross-generational sex”, which I originally thought met a situation like Catherine Zeta-Jones and Micheal Douglass.

        I’m am also disgusted by the breast-feeding thing. Actual women breastfeed their babies because it’s good for the baby, not to get a sexual high. Goes to show that once again, these men have no clue what it’s like to be women and have even less of a clue than your average dude.

  16. stopthemadness Says:

    This is the end game of pomo queer bullshit. I hope the “look how tolerant I am” Jezebel huffpo set wake the hell up and see where this is going!

  17. lampa Says:

    The Transphobia is strong, seems to act like braindead 4chan users, grow up and grow a fking brain you ignorant fucktards… Fucking ISIS ppl…

      • australopithecene Says:

        He likes dressing up as a “naughty girl”, and thinks women are “retarded and incompetent”. A pedo, misogynist mra trans. You don’t see that often.

      • GallusMag Says:

        I do. But I don’t usually approve their comments. I’m having a mood.

      • australopithecene Says:

        Ha, what I should have said was, “You see this incessantly”

      • Em Says:

        NaughtyCat needs a spanking, no doubt.

        Jesus Christ. I’m resigning from the human race.

      • Ashland Avenue Says:

        He doesn’t think women are “retarded and incompetent.” He thinks we’re “retard and incompent.” 😀 In another post, he calls women “ignorent”. Can NOT make this shit up.

      • margotmaybe Says:

        Gallus, instead of just not letting disgusting comments through, have you considered posting the worst of them on a separate page or blog with comments turned off? A hate mail type thing?

        It has actually been very helpful for me to witness the disgusting shit that comes out of people’s mouths on a number of occasions when trying to make up my mind about various groups of people. Why protect these fucks inadvertently?

      • Charlotte Says:

        I would think MRA-esque hatred and pedophilia is pretty common with these folks. After all, people tend to despise what they can’t have. Whether that be owning a female body, or having a female be sexually interested in you (cause let’s get honest ladies, most women are either straight or gay. The vast majority of straight women don’t want some effeminate acting dude in a dress, and most gay women want a fellow real woman.) So all that rejection builds up, and instead of fixing it, they “become their own girlfriends” as so many trans blogs I read tout. But that’s not very satiating, so they go after the young ones cause they aren’t experienced enough to know what they are getting into, their immature brains are easy to groom, and they think “different” is hip. When grown women don’t want ya, you gotta settle for trying to get a young one to talk into your nonsense.

      • alysdexia Says:

        Charlotte, most straiht women are gay. Gay is not a sexual orientation. It shares the ga- root with gawk, garish, gap, gape, yawn, kasm, gas, and kaos. It means “flashy manner” and is the opposite of coy. Its meaning was forgotten and was supplanted by campy, and campy’s meaning forgotten and supplanted by swishy. The opposite of straiht is queer and of lesbian is uranian.

        My Twitter account posts no longer show up even after my earlier posts were published; I assume it was blocked by GallusMag under regular prejudice.

    • Teal Deer Says:

      Shhh… Go take your meds like a good boy.

  18. prozac. Says:

    If i was male and, god forbid, had sexualized thoughts about children, I’d punch myself in the nuts every time it happened. I bet I’d learn real quick not to equate those two things, and if i destroyed my reproductive capacity, well maybe it wasn’t meant to be.

  19. mayimoktoo Says:

    My god. It got worse. https://www.facebook.com/andy.harrison.56808995/posts/1448608748770852?hc_location=ufi

    So the kid involved with the creator of Destroying Cissexism messaged me saying they are going to off themselves tomorrow. If ANYONE is in the UK or has a landline could call the NSPCC (0808 800 5000) you might save this persons life. Screenshots in comments.

    What kind of monster takes advantage of a mentally unstable child?


    • Predators people LOOK for unstable children like a lion going after a wounded zebra. Kids with mental/emotional issues and a bad home life are low hanging fruit. Supposedly the kid’s mother knew about this relationship. Most parents would never approve of such, that’s why they go for the kids with an effed up homelife.

      • Zemskull Says:

        Roslynholcomb: Not only are such children from dysfunctional homes “low hanging fruit,” they’re also less likely to believed if there is a criminal investigation. Witness the two cases in which Michael Jackson was publicly accused of molestation: the alleged instabilities of the parents of the accusers were used to discredit the accusations. This was especially true in the second case: the mother’s shoplifting arrest was used to taint the credibility of the child.

    • gchild Says:

      So, the they exploited this child, indoctrinated her into the Male Fuck Fetish Movement.They turned CSA into a weopon against her to both condone and condemn her for being raped by a grown ass man, then sounded the alarm AFTER having picked her clean–mind, body, and spirit? FFS, what did they think would happen?

      @mayimoktoo-what kind of monster? The kind that are most likely to be corrupted by power and privilege. The ones who have never been slaves and objects, and can therfore fetishize both states. The ones at the top of the human pyramid, sitting on the broken bodies and hearts of women and children; males.

      I hope someone cares enough to protect this kid and see to it that none of these people ever see or hear from her again.

      • Ashland Avenue Says:

        “Autymn” with a “Y”!!!

        can’t…stop…laughing OMG

      • Dogtowner Says:

        Isn’t that Aw, Tim?

      • Relieved Says:

        Radfem lobbyists? Uh, I can’t speak for others here but I’m dirt poor, long term unemployed and have zero political clout. I don’t even identify as feminist. I read this blog because it one of the only places left on the internet where rapists and child molesters aren’t defended as “misunderstood” and where victim’s voices are listened to and respected.

        The trans lobby on the other hand has multimillionaire Silicon Valley support, support of the Democratic Party, the fawning media, the entire pubic education system bending over backward to accommodate and the lobbying power of pharmaceutical companies like Pfizer, ffs.

        The trans as “poor oppressed victims” narrative is, excuse the pun, quite transparent. You guys don’t even bother with reality anymore, do you?

  20. Livvie Says:

    I am fucking sickened by all of this.

  21. australopithecene Says:

    There’s a very offended pedo in the thread.

  22. Oak and Ash Says:

    After reading the screencapped discussions and some of the more disturbing comments, I find myself wondering whether creepy adults will eventually start to claim they should be treated according to the age they “identify as.” Will they try to gain access to underage victims by reframing it as some sort of issue of human rights, maybe insist they’re being oppressed if they’re not treated in children’s hospitals? Demand to be sent to juvenile detention if convicted of a crime? Claim they can’t be charged with molesting a child because their brain age is 8? (Which may, in fact, be more-or-less true for some of them, but that’s a different problem.)

    I’d almost bet there’s some middle-aged guy out there who identifies as a four-year-old girl and yearns to go to princess camp. Anyone want to start a pool on how long before we hear accusations of “transageism,” or “cis-aged” feminists are blamed?

    It sounds absurd, of course, but some people already seem to be treading dangerously close to this.

    • neme Says:

      It sounded like a bunch of the adults around Michael Jackson excused his relationships with little boys by claiming Jacko’s arrested development made it OK.

      • Oak and Ash Says:

        “It sounded like a bunch of the adults around Michael Jackson excused his relationships with little boys by claiming Jacko’s arrested development made it OK.”

        Thanks for reminding me–I’d forgotten about that. Yeah, that’s the sort of thing I’m talking about.

  23. KgSch Says:

    Someone must know who this guy is and be able to report him to the police. Plus, there is plenty of evidence with his Facebook profile. Ugh, I made the mistake of trying to read that post and ended up feeling sick, but it’s more of the same bullshit.

    He claims that childhood sexual abuse and abuse from his parents made him a child molester, but that is a typical MAN excuse and a load of crap. The majority of females experience some kind of sexual abuse as children, often at the hands of male family members. The published statistics for this are alarmingly high, and yet at the same are severely under-reported. My point is that if childhood sexual abuse made people into pedophiles/child-rapists then the majority of females would be that way but that is not the case. Female pedophiles and female rapists are incredibly rare and are unreasonably focused on by the male mainstream media.

    His garbage about wanting feminist support to help him heal is more of the mainstream crap. Men only only awful because of “socialization” or because something bad happened to them as a kid, so therefore females must spend even more energy on them, trying to fix them, and to hell with the women and girls they hurt who actually need support.

    I just feel sorry for this girl he raped. Odds are she will eventually realize what a fucked up relationship this is and then the trannys will be after her.

    I will also say that I have had the great misfortune to meet many heterosexual male MTTs (online and in real life) who think that teenagers can consent to sex with grown men and that incest is a-okay. Yet, this is not too surprising considering that most child molesters are hetero men; it just seems that when you have a fetish like autogynophilia where literally everyone must participate or else, then you are more honest about the pedophilia.

    • kesher Says:

      They’re letting their fetishes consume their lives, so I imagine that’s one reason why they’re so upfront about it. But I think another significant factor is the apologism and excuses made by and on behalf of the trans community. Any criticism of trans predators is viewed as “transphobia”, regardless of context. It’s a pedophile’s and rapist’s delight.

      • KgSch Says:

        Considering it’s “transphobic” for the government not to use tax dollars to pay for hair removal and plastic surgery for a serial killer who killed women, it does not surprise me that pedophilia is okay when it comes from a tranny. I know these guys are more open about having other paraphillias (though they will deny that they are paraphilias). Even if they aren’t actively pervying on children themsevles, they might admit they are okay with it. I’ve met one in real-life who thinks that parental-child incest is consensual and that anyone who has hit puberty is self-aware enough to have sex. You can also just go look at the train-wreck known as tumblr.

        (I wonder if women is prison get free surgery or are even allowed to use razors if they feel bad about their bodies, even if they haven’t committed a capital crime. I doubt it. The fawning once again shows that even stupid liberals don’t view these dudes as women because real women are never treated that well. Women have to fight to even get birth control covered.)

      • GallusMag Says:

        Do you feel as a girl younger than your real age? How do you cope? (self.asktransgender)
        submitted 43 minutes ago by Ayleen_Quinn

        I am in my first year of transition and would like to know if anyone else feels like me…
        My greatest “problem” is that I feel much younger than I really am. I am 40yo and even if my body looks like 25-30, but my mind wants to feel the experience of a teen girl…
        I cant forgive myself for not transitioning earlier (even if I knew that it would be very hard) and longing to have all the experiences in my teen years that was denied. I was really alone all these years and did not knew how to cope until now.
        In the last 3 days I had a gender identity dysphoria so strong that I thought of suicide or mutilation a lot of times and practically remained at the bed…
        I know I am lucky that my body isnt so bad (I look a lot younger than I am), dont have a lot of body hair and I am finally doing my transition. But everything is blown away for the hate of myself (and the life I “lost”) when the Gender Dysphoria puts his black claws in my heart.
        Anyone had this experience??? How you cope???
        2 commentsshare
        all 2 comments
        sorted by: best
        [–]Amy_of_Dallas30yo MtF girl, HRT since 2013-11-22, FT since 2014-03-01 [score hidden] 16 minutes ago
        My greatest “problem” is that I feel much younger than I really am. I am 40yo and even if my body looks like 25-30, but my mind wants to feel the experience of a teen girl…
        Same here. I’m 30 now, started transitioning just before I turned 29, and I still feel like I’m mentally a teenager or maybe even a preteen. I’m still not ready to be an adult, and I don’t think I ever will be.
        I feel like I pissed away the only parts of my life I actually wanted to live, and I’ll never be able to cope with that.
        I cant forgive myself for not transitioning earlier (even if I knew that it would be very hard) and longing to have all the experiences in my teen years that was denied. I was really alone all these years and did not knew how to cope until now.
        Yep. There aren’t many people I unequivocally hate, but one of them is myself for not transitioning earlier.

        http://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/37ws1a/do_you_feel_as_a_girl_younger_than_your_real_age/

      • KgSch Says:

        Yikes! I guess there really is a “trans-age” thing. Most people who spend a lot of time wishing they were teenagers tend not to be successful as adults, only this has the fetish aspect a long with it.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: